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Marriage: How Do We Get There From Here?


       The Vermont Freedom to Marry Task Force has argued persuasively in its three-part series that we must continue to work toward full equality - marriage rights - for glb Vermonters. So, how do we get there from here? It's an ongoing discussion, and our own thinking, as well as that of other leaders in the Vermont freedom to marry movement, will no doubt continue to evolve. We welcome your input. For what it's worth, our current view is that we need to focus our collective energies on two important goals through the coming months and, perhaps, years:

Rebuild and Retrain The Troops

     
We learned from Hawaii that marching into battle before the troops are trained and ready can be dangerous. As a result, our organizing in Vermont from 1995 to 2000 became a national model. For nearly two years before we filed the Baker case, the Vermont Freedom to Marry Task Force recruited volunteers, trained speakers, produced a video, sent speakers to churches and civic associations, organized regional chapters, and began quietly educating our allies in Montpelier. In December 1999, when the Vermont Supreme Court handed down its surprise mixed decision, we were ready. Although our success in the statehouse was mixed, there is no doubt that the reason we were able to accomplish as much as we did (i.e., the civil union law) was that we had taken the time to organize, train, and lay the groundwork.
     We're starting a new chapter now. Vermont's a different place; people have come and gone; and the issues involved in the transition from civil union to marriage are different in many ways from the question of moving from nothing to marriage. We need to learn from our own successes and begin vigorously, but patiently, laying the groundwork (both within our community and beyond) for the next step.
      The Vermont Freedom to Marry Task Force, which has led the public education effort since 1995, is reinvigorated with this goal in mind. Get involved! Get trained, come to a regional meeting, host a gathering, speak to a local organization, and keep telling your story to friends, co-workers, and neighbors.
     No matter what form the next step takes - whether a lawsuit or a bill in the legislature- we know it would be a mistake to jump too soon, before we've gotten our ducks in a row. (We just can't get away from ducks - little yellow ones - when it comes to this issue...)

Restore a Gay-Friendly Legislature

      We don't need to remind anyone who was here in 2000 of the mean-spiritedness of the backlash, or the toll it took on our support in the statehouse. Anti-civil union forces staged a dramatic takeover of the House in November, 2000. As a result, we spent much of 2001 working hard in the Legislature to hang on to the civil union law.
     Freedom to marry boosters worked incredibly hard in the 2002 campaign, and helped restore the Senate firmly to friendly hands. We played a role in turning the tide in the House as well, yielding a House that was nearly evenly divided between civil union foes and supporters (though still controlled by foes).
     The 2004 election will be vital. We have a shot at returning Vermont's House to supportive hands, hanging on to the Senate, and electing a Governor and Lieutenant Governor more deeply committed to our rights. Does this mean that if we can just win back a few more seats in the Legislature, we'll quickly get marriage? Probably not. We're still far from a pro-marriage majority in the House, and probably in the Senate, though the national tide is turning.
     But the 2004 election is vital for several reasons: First, all five Vermont Supreme Court justices face retention hearings in 2005. It is absolutely essential, both for us here in Vermont and for the movement nationally, that these justices remain secure in their jobs after their groundbreaking, albeit quite conservative, Baker decision. Justices in Oregon, Washington, California, New York, and New Jersey will be watching closely (there are marriage cases pending in all of these states). Our own ability to rely on the Court in the future to correctly answer the question it left open in Baker (Do same-sex couples have a constitutional right to a marriage license, in addition to the other tangible benefits of marriage?) depends in part on the confidence of the justices that they can safely do the right thing.
     Second, the possibility of a federal constitutional amendment that would prohibit states from recognizing same-sex marriages, as well as civil unions and domestic partnerships, is very real. We might find ourselves in a ratification struggle here in Vermont. We need to build the strongest political position possible in the event that happens.
     Third, when the time comes - when the grassroots is organized, trained, and ready, when we've engaged our friends, neighbors and coworkers, and when it's time to press the issue in the courts or in the legislature - we know it will be vital to have as supportive a legislature as possible.
     As November approaches, volunteer for the best possible candidates in your district, or contact Vermont Fund for Families www.vermontfundforfamilies.org, to figure out how you can help.

Beth Robinson and Susan Murray


Beth Robinson and Susan Murray co-founded the Vermont Freedom to Marry Task Force in 1995, represented the plaintiffs in Baker v. State, led the lobbying effort that culminated in the passage of the civil union law, and ran two political action committees dedicated to electing supportive candidates.


Editorial

Moving Forward on Several Fronts

     Four events of note demand mention - and in fact deserve more than that. The first is the signing into law of H.113, the school anti-harassment bill. The bill was passed by the Senate without changes from the House version, and Governor Douglas signed it in mid-April. It defines harassment and outlines a clear process for school staff and administrators to follow in dealing with threats to student learning based on "a student's or a student's family member's actual or perceived race, creed, color, national origin, marital status, sex, sexual orientation, or disability."
     This bill was supported by lgbt organizations both for "our" inclusion and as allies for the Vermont Anti-Racism Action Team and other organizations who were the prime movers behind the bill. And despite the removal of a school choice provision held to be indispensable by VARAT, its passage is a triumph for all the organizations involved.
     The second event was the eighth annual Day of Silence on April 21, a protest organized by the United States Student Association and the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) to recognize and make unacceptable the harassment faced by lgbt students. Founded in 1996 at the University of Virginia, the demonstration of the silencing effect of harassment has grown to encompass 2600 schools and universities. Last year then-Governor Gray Davis (remember him?) proclaimed a state Day of Silence in support of the students' goal.
     Participants at UVM wore stickers, handed out cards, and sponsored a lunch for supportive students and faculty who could not fully participate for the whole day. These students are our community's future - and it's in good hands.
     The third is the energized opposition to SB427 in the New Hampshire legislature. This mini-DOMA refuses recognition to same-sex marriages or any arrangement "that is treated as a marriage or the legal equivalent of marriage" in other states. In addition, it defines marriage as solely involving "one man and one woman as husband and wife."
     New Hampshire Freedom To Marry has been organizing opposition to the Senate-passed bill that at press time was awaiting votes in the House Judiciary Committee and on the floor of the House. According to Brian Rater of NHFTM, the chairman of the committee says his gay friends had advised him that they supported passage of an amended version of the bill. Really? We hope Freedom to Marry is successful in defeating the bill, yet another mean-spirited intrusion of Christian fundamentalism into the civic life of lgbt folks throughout New England. When we published in February the account of a woman seeking a potentially life-saving mammogram at a hospital across the river in NH which refused to accept her civil union partner as her next of kin, it clarified for all of us what's at stake.
     The fourth event is astounding, something many of us never thought we'd see. While the marriages performed in San Francisco in February and March, and in Portland, Oregon, and briefly in several other cities may be validated by future court rulings, the marriages that will be celebrated this month in Massachusetts have already overcome that hurdle.
     To the justices of the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court, to the Gay and Lesbian Advocates & Defenders who argued the case, and especially to Mary Bonauto and Jennifer Levi, to the seven plaintiff couples - Julie and Hillary Goodridge, Ed Balmelli and Michael Horgan, Gina Smith and Heidi Norton, Maureen Brodoff and Ellen Wade, Richard Linell and Gary Chalmers, Gloria Bailey and Linda Davies, and David Wilson and Robert Compton - to all the gay and lesbian couples in the Commonwealth: Thank you for leaping over Vermont's lead and showing the rest of the nation the way to full equality. May your marriages bring you joy, dignity, respect and equal treatment in all areas of your lives.


Euan Bear
Editor

editor@mountainpridemedia.org

 




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