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Planning
for Our Future
Aging LGBTs
by Jacqueline S.
Weinstock
Whistling
Women: A study of
the lives of older lesbians
C.
Claassen
The Haworth
Press.
Midlife and older LGBT adults:
Knowledge and affirmative
practice for the social services.
S. Hunter
The Haworth
Press
|
Driven
by personal concerns (I am in midlife now), academic interest, and my
volunteer work with the "Vermont Queer Elders Project," my summer
reading has focused on midlife and late-life adults who are lesbian, gay,
bisexual and/or transgender. Two worthwhile and distinctive books are
Whistling Women (Claassen, 2005) and Midlife and Older LGBT
Adults (Hunter, 2005).
Whistling Women
describes Claassen's interview-based, qualitative study of 44 lesbians
over 59 who lived in or visited Boone, North Carolina (where the author
lives) during summers. Most of the women were middle- or upper-class and
all but one were white. Hoping to "bring much-needed visibility"
to this age group, Claassen examines the women's lesbian life histories,
retirement issues, and community experiences. Different chapters highlight
different themes within these broad topics. For example, in Chapter 1
Claasen places the women's lives in historical context, dividing the sample
into two cohorts — those over 72 (born between 1917 and 1929) and
those between 67 and 75 (born between 1930 and 1938) at the time of their
interview.
Sprinkled throughout these chapters
are some interesting findings, including the tendency for the women in
this sample, most of whom identified as Democrats, to be more in tune
with either women's or gay rights than queer politics, and the surprising
finding that despite the prevailing sexist stereotypes of the times, this
sample of women pursued a diversity of careers, many with pension plans.
They thus arrived at late-life in an economically privileged position.
While a narrow sample, Claassen's
study offers several insights. Most significantly, in "Life After
Sixty," Claassen paints a picture of the fullness of life being lived
and thereby challenges negative stereotypes about aging and about being
old. I also appreciate the insight this chapter — along with "Lesbian
Spaces, Gay Faces" — offers into the ways older lesbians are
creating community in a diversity of hospitable climates (financial and
weather-wise; politically the work still remains in some of these locations!).
As such, these two chapters might be particularly useful to lesbians looking
for a place to live in the later years of life.
Claassen realizes the need to
consider life choices and actions in the contexts in which they were made:
"I now think no greater number of brave people in 2004 exists, just
greater emphasis on identifying a sexuality now than before 1970."
Thus Claassen gives appropriate credit to the risks the women took during
their lives to love other women "in a quiet, wordless, nascent culture
[where] there is nothing to speak." If reading this book helps lead
more of us to this insight — which could foster communication between
queer generations — then I think it worthwhile. But if you are looking
for a broader overview of LGBT adult issues, and especially if you are
a social service practitioner, Hunter’s book is the one to read.
In Midlife and Older
LGBT Adults, Hunter reviews and synthesizes available academic research
to offer a general picture of midlife and late-life LGBTs' experiences.
This review, however, is limited by the existing literature's focus on
gay men and lesbians, and on white, middle-class U.S.-based samples. While
a review can only be as good as the literature, Hunter does a better job
in some chapters (chapters 7 and 9) than in others (chapters 1 and 8)
considering the experiences and issues facing bisexuals or transgenders.
There are several strengths
to Hunter’s book, including the introductory chapter that paints
a broad-stroke historical analysis of the LGBT movement, particularly
as it has impacted lesbians and gay men now in middle and late adulthood.
Other chapters offer an overview of identity-development models and their
limits; coming out and living as lesbian and gay in midlife and late adulthood;
education, income, work, community participation; and family/friend issues.
Ze pays some attention to experiences across racial and ethnic groups,
but per generalizations may further cloud rather than clarify how sexuality,
sex, gender, race/ethnicity, and age interact to shape our experiences
and perspectives. (Hunter’s limited definitions of key terms such
as sex, gender, and sexual orientation doesn't help matters either.)
Hunter's most significant insights
are in the second half of the book. Everyone should read per description
of age-related positives and "downturns" in Chapters 5 and 6
to better understand the general aging process and issues particular to
LGBTs. For social service practitioners working with LGBT adults, Chapters
7 and 8 are essential.
Hunter's final chapter, "Group
and Community Practice with Older Lesbian and Gay Persons" is also
a must-read. Ze presents two diverse approaches or models (originally
identified by Tully, 2000) for working with LGBT older people: "the
separate but equal model" focuses on developing and implementing
elder services within the LGBT community; the "making services responsive
model" works to improve existing elder services to better meet the
needs of LGBT people. There are benefits and drawbacks to each approach,
Hunter notes, and it is likely that both are needed.
Clearly there is much work to
be done. Here in Vermont we need especially to listen to and learn from
our own LGBT community members now in late adulthood, to work with current
aging-related agencies to challenge heterosexism and rigid gender beliefs,
and to address ageism and other isms in the queer community. These two
books can offer us some guidance and a push to get going on creating affirmative
contexts that support our continued healthy development we age.
The "Vermont Queer Elders Project" aims to identify and meet
the needs of queer elders, raise public awareness of these needs and ensure
that existing services for elder Vermonters are culturally competent and
queer-friendly. If you would like to join us in this work, please contact
Peggy at RU12? Queer Community Center: 802.860.7812; peggy@ru12.org
Jacqueline (Jackie) S. Weinstock is an associate professor at the
University of Vermont and one of the organizers of the Vermont Queer Elders
Project. |